Reading the Body Language of Women Flirting with You

When it comes to understanding women, some guys are hopelessly clueless. They have no idea where they stand with a girl they just met… a girl who obviously likes them.

Even when she’s giving them clear signals of interest, they just miss them.

What usually happens between a guy and a girl in a situation like this is:

They talk for some time and then part ways feeling frustrated when running out of topics to talk about. He is frustrated because she didn’t respond to his “flirting” and she because he didn’t understand her signals.

The problem here is that many women aren’t as straightforward as men and won’t give a guy direct signs of interest.

They flirt with a man through subtle signs hoping for the guy to picks them up and act. But most men rarely do!

But don’t worry, this problem can easily be fixed by learning more about the body language of a woman. That’s why, in this article, you’ll find some female body language signs that let you know she’s interested in you.

So, when you are chatting up a girl who clearly is attracted to you and flirts with you, you know what to look out for!

The Body Language of a Flirting Woman

When you’re interacting with women, they can give you many signs to let you know about their interest in you. Of course, it’s up to you to pick them up and act. So, without further ado, here are some of them:

She is Playing with Her Hair When Talking to You

This is by far the most basic and visible sign that a girl is interested in you. Still, many guys are totally oblivious to it.

When you are talking to each other, keep an eye out for what she is doing with her hair.

If she is using her hands to “play” with her hair while keeping strong eye contact with you, it is a clear sign that she is interested in you. Most women either twirl their hair around their fingers, push their fingers through it, or throw it back behind their shoulders.

So, whenever a woman is doing this and is looking intensely at you, you can be quite certain that she is interested in you.

She is Touching You Whenever Possible

Women communicate very often through touch. Well, we all do, actually.

They love to touch. Whenever in your interaction she is touching your, it’s a good sign.

This could even be a totally innocent pat. Sometimes she even “accidentally” touches your arm or any other body part (NO, not THAT one!).

Or she might touch you intentionally. For example, whenever giving you a compliment and patting you on the hand. Sometimes when you tease her, she might even hit you playfully.

Whenever a woman constantly touches you, she likes you and is flirting with you.

And you should touch her back!

But this, of course, isn’t an invitation to touch her everywhere! When she touches your arm, do the same back. In fact, most of the time, you should initiate the contact to see if she touches you back.

If she does, it’s a good sign.

She is Always Facing You and Holding Eye Contact

This one might be the hardest to interpret because we are always facing a person when interacting with them.

Therefore, you have to look closely at her posture and eye contact as well. If her body and feet are pointing towards you and she tries to hold long eye contact, she is interested in you.

If she isn’t that interested, she might be still facing you but her feet are turned away from you like she is about to walk away.

You could even test this by moving around a bit to see if she follows you with her body. If she does, then you know for sure.

Maybe the best (and probably funniest) way to test this is to take a step back and see if she actually takes a step forward to close the gap between you.

She Starts Mirroring You

When you talk to her and are standing in a certain pose, she might take up the same pose.

This is called mirroring and it’s an unconscious, involuntary way two people who like each other connect – basically they start to move in sync by mirroring each other’s movements.

It’s very easy to recognize if she is mirroring you. You simply have to take up a pose and see if she follows. If she does, she is interested in you.

But you can even “exploit” this by starting to mirror her first (obviously try to do it as subtly as you can). But if you succeed, after some time, you can try to take the lead and see if she will follow.

She is Focused on You (and only you)

This is basically a combination of the previously mentioned tips.

If a girl is totally zoned into what you are talking and she won’t even react to others (her friends or other people) then you can be certain that she is into you.

This is very easy to recognize when you are talking and she doesn’t even notice that someone else might try to get her attention.

To Conclude

Like you can already imagine, these were just some of the very basic body language signs you can look out for when talking to a woman.

Of course, there are many more body language signals at play in every interaction, but if you can spot these, you will already have a good understanding whether she likes you and is flirting with you… or not.

But remember, when you recognize any of the above-mentioned indicators, you have to act!

She is trying to flirt with you and let you know that you should make your move!

So do it, takes the first step!

Be the man and just do it!

If you’re still struggling to understand when it’s okay to touch a woman or how to do it so she’ll actually respond positively to you, go ahead and take a look at my course Rules of The Alpha Male! Because it can change the way you interact with women!

After internalizing the taught concepts, you won’t even have to paying attention to her body language anymore! That’s because you’ll be acting naturally in a way that makes her attracted to you!

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